Woman are curious and want to find out things on their own. If you have a new sex toy don’t pull it out and start jamming it in any hole you find.
Here are some ideas for you:
-Don’t be totally agreeable all the time. Conflict can make conversations more interesting. as long as you don’t insult what her and her beliefs.
-Don’t just ask questions, you have to tell interesting stories about yourself.
-Don’t just be “the nice guy” you can tease her in a good hearted way.
-Don’t just pick cookie cutter date locations, do something other than just a date and a movie.
Don’t go the touchy or aggressive route for sure, small touches come with time and you can usually tell when a girl wants something like that. Movies are usually never a good first date, think about it, you sit there in the dark for several hours and can’t talk or anything. On your next date, do something really fun, like rock climbing or hiking or wine tasting, whatever you’re interested in. Things like that make it so that you have something fun to do and that leads to easier conversation. Sometimes you have to meet and date a lot of ‘friends” to get to the right one, don’t give up! Remember – you only need to find the right one once:)
Another idea is to take them to fairs or amusement parks (depending on where you live). I think that is so much better than dinner and a movie because they are so much fun and you can tell a lot about people by what rides they like.
If you guys text, say her NAME somewhere in your reply…it shows that you’re thinking about her. And eye contact is very important. Just randomly give her hugs or embrace her, and see if she hugs back or squeezes you in the hug – that’s a good way to tell if she might like you back.
